How to Prepare for IVF: Physical & Emotional Support

By Lindsay Goodwin, LAc, MSOM, BS, FABORM | Integrative Reproductive Medicine Clinician | Spirit Baby Medium | The Consciousness Medium™ | Author of Spirit Babies & The Fertile Mind | The Five Dimensions of Fertility: The Fertile Energy Field™

IVF asks a great deal of your body, your time and your attention. A thoughtful support plan can help you feel informed and cared for through stimulation, retrieval, embryo transfer and the waiting that follows. You can prepare for the practical steps while making room for your emotional life and the support you want around you.

In this guide, Lindsay brings reproductive medicine experience, whole-person care and an encouraging look at fertility acupuncture into a plan you can shape with your IVF team. Each protocol is individual, so use your clinic’s instructions to guide medication and procedure decisions.

What IVF Preparation Can Do

Preparation helps you understand your protocol, follow medication instructions, plan the logistics and choose the people and practices that will support you. Fresh and frozen transfers have different timing and clinical considerations, as the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology explains. Ask your team why a particular pathway fits your situation. Your plan can grow and change as you move through treatment.

Before the IVF Cycle: Build the Medical and Practical Foundation

Clarify the protocol

• Which medications will I use, at what dose and on which days?
• How will monitoring appointments be scheduled?
• Whom do I contact after hours if a dose is missed or symptoms change?
• What would cause the plan to be adjusted or the cycle to be paused?
• What are the retrieval, fertilization, culture, testing and transfer decisions I may face?

Keep instructions in one place and ask the clinic to confirm anything that is unclear. Do not change medications, supplements or timing based on generalized online advice.

Plan the logistics

Map transportation for retrieval, medication storage, work coverage, childcare, meals and who will receive clinic updates. A simple plan can reduce the number of decisions made while tired or uncomfortable.

Review health information

Bring a complete medication and supplement list to your clinic. The CDC notes that infertility evaluation and treatment vary according to age, history and contributing factors. Individualized guidance matters more than a universal “IVF diet” or supplement stack.

Emotional Preparation for IVF

IVF can bring many feelings into the same day: anticipation, uncertainty, tenderness and exhaustion. Emotional care gives you a place to process the experience and ask for what you need. The ESHRE psychosocial care guideline recognizes the value of attending to people’s emotional needs throughout fertility treatment.

Choose the people who can meet different needs: a therapist familiar with fertility treatment, a partner or trusted friend for regular check-ins, and someone who can help with practical tasks. Lindsay Goodwin’s private fertility support brings nearly two decades of clinical reproductive medicine experience together with medical intuition and energy medicine for individuals and couples navigating IVF.

Support During Ovarian Stimulation

Follow the clinic’s medication and monitoring instructions exactly. Hydration, regular meals, sleep and gentle movement may support comfort when approved by your team. Ask which symptoms are expected and which require urgent contact. Severe pain, shortness of breath, rapid weight change or other concerning symptoms should be reported promptly.

Fertility acupuncture with Lindsay Goodwin may also be included as complementary support during ovarian stimulation. Lindsay is a licensed fertility acupuncturist and a Fellow of the Acupuncture and TCM Board of Reproductive Medicine (FABORM), reflecting advanced certification in acupuncture and traditional Chinese reproductive medicine. Treatment is individualized, coordinated with the fertility clinic and adapted to each client’s medication protocol, monitoring schedule and physical response.

For emotional care around retrieval and transfer, explore the IVF mind-body guide.

Egg Retrieval: Prepare for the Day and Recovery

Confirm fasting instructions, transportation, arrival time and medication changes. You will generally need an adult to take you home after sedation. Keep the following day flexible if possible. Your clinic should explain pain control, activity restrictions and when to call.

Emotionally, retrieval can be a point where expectations collide with an early number. Remember that follicles, eggs, mature eggs, fertilized eggs and embryos are different stages. Ask your clinic when updates will arrive and what each number can—and cannot—predict.

Embryo Transfer Preparation

Transfer instructions may include medication timing, bladder guidance and arrival details. Follow your clinic’s activity recommendations and make space for what helps you feel comfortable and cared for. Read Preparing for Embryo Transfer: A Holistic, Evidence-Based Approach for a fuller explanation.

Complementary IVF Support

Fertility Acupuncture Throughout IVF

Fertility acupuncture can be a valuable part of comprehensive IVF care—not only on embryo-transfer day, but throughout preparation, ovarian stimulation, retrieval and recovery. With an individualized treatment plan, acupuncture provides consistent support as medications, monitoring results and physical needs change. Clients commonly use it to support nervous-system regulation, ease IVF-related anxiety, promote physical comfort and feel more connected to their bodies during an intensely medical process. For more on timing, benefits and what an appointment with Lindsay involves, read her fertility acupuncture guide.

Research gives us encouraging reasons to include acupuncture in an IVF support plan. A 2025 review of 22 randomized trials associated acupuncture alongside assisted reproduction with higher clinical pregnancy rates overall, with promising findings during IVF preparation and ovarian stimulation. A 2026 review of 42 trials also found higher clinical pregnancy and implantation rates; its authors describe the timing findings as exploratory and the effect on live birth as still uncertain. Together, these findings offer a meaningful basis for individualized care across the cycle.

Lindsay offers reproductive medicine acupuncture as a purposeful part of integrative IVF preparation. Lindsay Goodwin’s fertility acupuncture care is coordinated around the client’s IVF calendar and informed by nearly two decades of reproductive-medicine experience. As a licensed acupuncturist and Fellow of the Acupuncture and TCM Board of Reproductive Medicine (FABORM), Lindsay brings advanced reproductive-medicine training to stimulation, retrieval, uterine-lining preparation, embryo transfer and early-pregnancy support.

Mind-body practices

Guided imagery, breathing, progressive muscle relaxation and meditation can make space for rest and reflection. Choose the practices that feel genuinely supportive to you; a conversation, a walk or quiet time together may fit better on some days.

Intuitive and spiritual support

Intuition can help you notice what matters, formulate questions and stay connected to your own experience as you make informed treatment choices. If you welcome spiritual support, explore spirit baby connection during IVF. Lindsay can bring medical intuition, energy medicine and the Fertile Energy Field™ Method into your care.

The Waiting Period and Results

Decide in advance whether you will test at home, how you want results delivered and who you want nearby. Limit symptom interpretation: progesterone, procedures and ordinary cycle changes can overlap with early-pregnancy sensations. Make a plan for both possible outcomes without assuming either one.

If a cycle is unsuccessful, request a review of what was learned and which next steps are medically reasonable. Give emotional processing its own time. A rapid pivot is not always the same as a supported decision.

For a practice during the waiting period, explore two-week wait emotional support. If treatment feels consuming, read the fertility burnout guide.

Your One-Page IVF Support Plan

• Clinical: protocol, contacts, warning signs and decision points.
• Practical: medication station, transportation, work and meals.
• Emotional: therapist or support person, boundaries and coping tools.
• Embodied: rest, movement and comfort practices approved by your team.
• Meaning: values, intuition and spiritual practices that help you feel connected to your path.

Frequently Asked Questions

How far in advance should I prepare for IVF?

Preparation can begin whenever a cycle becomes likely. Many people use several weeks to organize medications, appointments, questions and support, but there is no single perfect timeline.

How can I care for my emotional wellbeing during IVF?

Choose a few forms of care you can return to: a supportive person, a conversation with your partner, counseling when useful, or a calming practice that fits your day. You can ask for additional support at any stage of treatment.

What should I ask before starting IVF?

Ask about your protocol, medication instructions, monitoring schedule, expected side effects, clinic contact process, retrieval and transfer plans, embryo testing if relevant, costs and the decisions that could arise at each stage.

Can acupuncture be used during IVF?

Yes. Fertility acupuncture can be tailored to IVF preparation, stimulation, retrieval and transfer, with visits planned around your clinic schedule. Research has found encouraging associations with clinical pregnancy and implantation rates, and Lindsay adapts care to your history, medications and treatment stage. Share your acupuncture plan with your IVF team.

What support is useful during the two-week wait?

A realistic schedule, limits on symptom searching, planned contact with supportive people, gentle activities and a clear testing plan can reduce uncertainty. Seek professional help if distress becomes difficult to manage.

References

1. SART. Fresh and frozen embryo transfers.
2. CDC. Infertility FAQs.
3. ESHRE. Psychosocial care guideline.
4. NCCIH. Acupuncture: effectiveness and safety.
5. Yang Y, et al. Acupuncture treatment schedules and ART pregnancy outcomes: systematic review and network meta-analysis. Frontiers in Endocrinology. 2025.
6. Wei J, et al. Timing and dose of acupuncture as adjuncts to assisted reproduction: meta-analysis and network meta-analysis. Frontiers in Endocrinology. 2026.
7. Xu M, Zhu M, Zheng C. Effects of acupuncture on pregnancy outcomes in women undergoing in vitro fertilization: an updated systematic review and meta-analysis. Archives of Gynecology and Obstetrics. 2024.

About Lindsay Goodwin

Lindsay Goodwin, LAc, MSOM, BS, FABORM is a licensed acupuncturist and integrative reproductive medicine clinician with nearly two decades of clinical experience in natural reproductive medicine. She is a medical intuitive, generational intuitive and Spirit Baby medium, author of Spirit Babies & The Fertile Mind, and creator of the Fertile Energy Field™ Method. Through Fertile Frequencies, she brings clinical experience and consciousness together to help individuals and couples understand their options, make informed decisions, and follow a personalized plan. Her care offers clear next steps and ongoing support through natural conception, IVF, and pregnancy, with attention to the physical, emotional, intuitive, and spiritual dimensions of each stage.

This article is educational and complementary. It does not replace individualized medical evaluation, diagnosis, IVF treatment or mental-health care.