How to Choose a Spirit Baby Medium

By Lindsay Goodwin, LAc, MSOM, BS, FABORM | Integrative Reproductive Medicine Clinician | Spirit Baby Medium | The Consciousness Medium™ | Author of Spirit Babies & The Fertile Mind | The Five Dimensions of Fertility: The Fertile Energy Field™

Updated November 1, 2026

You may be here after a miscarriage, trying to understand the connection you felt with your baby. You may have been through several IVF cycles and feel exhausted by how much is still uncertain. Perhaps you are pregnant now—excited, scared, and finding that the anxiety has followed you into a chapter you wanted so much.

Or maybe you are just beginning your fertility journey. You have questions about Spirit Babies, you are not sure where to turn, and you want to speak with someone who understands what this means to you.

Wherever you are, choosing a Spirit Baby medium is a personal decision. Who do you trust with something so emotional, so close to your heart?

Start by looking at the person behind the reading. Do they have experience supporting fertility treatment, pregnancy, and loss? Will they take time to understand your journey and what you need now? Can you have a conversation with them, or will you receive a prediction with little opportunity to ask questions?

A Spirit Baby reading can make room for your connection with your baby and the experience you are living through. The support you need may change as you move from trying to conceive into treatment, pregnancy, or life after loss. That deserves to be part of the conversation.

What do I need from a Spirit Baby reading right now?

Start by naming what you need: connection with your baby, reassurance, a place to talk about a loss, or help making sense of a sign. The right medium is the one who can meet that need.

Ask yourself what brought you to this search. You do not have to turn it into a spiritual question before it belongs in a reading. It might be as simple as, “I am afraid to feel excited about this pregnancy,” or “I want to talk about the baby I lost, and I do not know who will understand.”

If you are preparing for IVF, you may want to explore feeling connected to your baby while everything around you involves appointments, numbers, and waiting. If you are just starting, you may want someone to explain Spirit Baby connection without assuming you already know what it is.

Those are different needs. Look for a practitioner who can hear the difference and respond to you as an individual.

If this work is new to you, my Spirit Baby guide explains how I understand Spirit Babies as the souls or consciousness of future children.

Is the reading a live conversation or a one-way prediction?

A good Spirit Baby reading is a conversation, not a one-way prediction: you share your story, ask questions, and explore the impressions together.

Messages can be meaningful. What matters is whether there is also room for you in the session: your questions, your feelings, and the experiences that brought you there.

Ask how the reading works. Will you speak together? Can you explain what is happening in your life and ask follow-up questions? If something is unclear, will the practitioner take time to explore it with you?

You may arrive wanting to ask when your baby will come and discover that what you also need is to talk about a loss, a difficult treatment experience, or how disconnected you have begun to feel from yourself. A thoughtful practitioner makes room for that conversation.

In my own practice, dream-time intention and automatic writing are part of how I prepare. During our time together, I share the intuitive impressions that arise, and we explore them alongside your questions. Your journey matters in how we have that conversation.

Does the medium have experience with IVF, pregnancy, and loss?

Ask directly. Delivering spiritual messages and supporting someone through an embryo transfer, repeated cycles, or a miscarriage are different skills, and you deserve a practitioner who has the second.

Someone can offer spiritual messages without having experience supporting a person through an embryo transfer, repeated unsuccessful cycles, or the weeks after a miscarriage. Ask about that experience directly.

“Have you worked with people going through IVF?” “How do you approach a reading after pregnancy loss?” “What happens if I become emotional or have questions about something painful?”

Listen for an answer that tells you how they work. General reassurance may feel good for a moment, but you are looking for someone who understands why a new treatment cycle, a scan, or a pregnancy announcement might bring up so much.

After loss, you may want to speak about your baby, explore the connection you still feel, or ask questions you have not felt able to say aloud. You should be able to do that without being told that the loss was your fault, that you failed to heal something, or that you need to reach a certain frequency before a baby can arrive.

My approach brings nearly two decades of fertility care together with my work as a born generational intuitive medium and Spirit Baby medium. As a licensed acupuncturist and natural and integrative reproductive medicine provider, with FABORM reproductive-medicine training, I understand the clinical context people may be navigating. My intuitive work offers another way to explore their experience. You can read more about my background and approach.

Can a Spirit Baby medium support me during pregnancy?

Yes, if the practitioner has experience with pregnancy after IVF or loss and can make room for fear as well as excitement.

A positive pregnancy test does not necessarily bring an end to the fear you have been carrying. You may feel excited about your baby and frightened of another loss. You may want to celebrate, then find yourself holding back until the next appointment or scan.

Ask whether the practitioner has experience supporting people during pregnancy, including pregnancy after IVF or loss. How do they approach the changing questions that come with each stage? Can you talk honestly about fear as well as excitement?

In my work, pregnancy readings can offer a space to explore your connection with your baby and the feelings coming up around pregnancy, birth, and becoming a parent. If you would like ongoing support, that is a separate conversation about what would be useful for you.

You might want help finding words for what you feel, sharing the experience with your partner, or exploring a spiritual connection while you wait for your next appointment. Those needs can change. A practitioner should be willing to hear where you are today rather than assume that being pregnant means you now feel reassured.

You can explore pregnancy support with me if you are looking for care beyond a single reading. Persistent anxiety also deserves support from a qualified mental health professional familiar with fertility and pregnancy experiences.

Will a Spirit Baby reading replace my fertility or prenatal care?

No. A Spirit Baby reading cannot diagnose infertility, assess an embryo, confirm a pregnancy, or tell you whether a pregnancy is developing normally. Those questions belong with your qualified care team.

You can value spiritual connection and continue to ask clear questions about your medical care. A practitioner who understands fertility treatment should respect the role of your reproductive team. During pregnancy, that same respect belongs with your prenatal care.

Ask, “How do you handle questions about treatment, medication, embryos, or pregnancy concerns?”

A Spirit Baby reading cannot diagnose infertility, assess an embryo, confirm a pregnancy, or determine whether a pregnancy is developing normally. Concerns about symptoms, treatment, and pregnancy health need to go to your qualified care team.

Within that care, there is still room to talk about what you are experiencing spiritually and emotionally. You can explore a dream, a sense of connection, or your feelings about a decision while taking the practical questions to the people qualified to answer them.

For more about what happens in a session, read what a fertility psychic reading and Spirit Baby reading can include.

What are the red flags and green flags in a Spirit Baby medium?

A trustworthy medium can be honest about uncertainty while treating you with compassion. Be cautious of guarantees, pressure, and blame.

When you have been living with uncertainty for a long time, a confident prediction can be very appealing. It is understandable to want someone to tell you that everything will work out.

Pay attention to how a practitioner responds to that need. Can they be honest about uncertainty while still treating you with compassion? Can you disagree with an impression, ask for more explanation, or take time to decide what it means to you?

Be cautious if someone guarantees a conception date, promises a successful transfer, or tells you that more paid sessions are necessary to keep your baby close. Support should leave room for your choices. It should not make you afraid to step away.

You deserve to be listened to without having your fear used to sell you certainty.

How can I research a Spirit Baby medium before I book?

Read about the person, listen to an interview or podcast, and notice how they speak about fertility, pregnancy, and loss before you decide.

Read about the person you are considering. Listen to an interview or podcast if they have one. Notice how they speak about fertility, pregnancy, and loss, and whether their approach feels right for you.

Following my near-death experience in 2017, my connection with Spirit Babies deepened through my exploration of consciousness and what I call New Earth Kids. In my teachings, 5D consciousness describes a spiritual awareness of connection beyond what we can immediately see.

That perspective is part of my work, alongside my experience in reproductive care. You can ask me about it, bring your own beliefs, and take time to consider what resonates with you.

My book, Spirit Babies & The Fertile Mind, is another way to get to know my voice and teachings before choosing a private session.

Is a $15 Etsy Spirit Baby reading worth it?

It depends on what you are buying: a short written prediction and a live session with a practitioner are very different products, and price alone cannot tell you which one you are getting.

If you are considering a $15 Etsy reading, look closely at what you are buying. Is it a short written prediction about a conception month or your future baby? Or does it include time with a practitioner who will listen to your history and speak with you about your questions?

Those are very different experiences. If you have been through a loss, several IVF cycles, or a pregnancy filled with anxiety, a few lines about the future may leave the things you most need support with untouched.

Price alone cannot tell you whether a reading is authentic. A high fee does not establish intuitive ability either. What you can look for is a clearly identified practitioner, an explanation of their process, relevant experience, and a clear description of how they will interact with you.

If you cannot tell who is preparing the reading, whether it is individually prepared, or how you can ask questions, you may have little way to assess the service before paying. Ask before you book. If the answers remain vague, it is reasonable to look elsewhere.

Choose according to the support you need. A brief written reading should not be presented as equivalent to a full, interactive session or ongoing fertility and pregnancy support.

What should a Spirit Baby reading include, and what does it cost?

A clear offer tells you the length, whether it is live or written, whether you can ask follow-up questions, what you receive afterward, and what it costs.

Ask how long you will have together, whether the reading is live or written, and whether you can ask follow-up questions during the session. Find out whether a partner can attend, what you receive afterward, and how recordings and personal information are handled.

Also ask what happens if you want support beyond that appointment. A single reading and an ongoing support program are different offers. The practitioner should explain what each includes, what it costs, and how you can decide whether it fits your needs.

Read the cancellation and rescheduling terms before paying. You should understand the service you are choosing and what you can expect from it.

You can find my current options and booking details on Spirit Baby Readings with Lindsay Goodwin.

What questions should I ask a Spirit Baby medium before I book?

Bring these ten questions to any practitioner you are considering. The answers will tell you far more than a testimonial or a price.

1. Have you supported people through IVF, miscarriage, or pregnancy after loss?
   Listen for: specific, experienced answers rather than general reassurance.
2. Is the reading live, and can I ask questions during it?
   Listen for: yes, with time to explore your questions.
3. Who prepares my reading, and is it prepared individually for me?
   Listen for: a named practitioner and a clear process.
4. How do you handle questions about treatment, medication, embryos, or pregnancy concerns?
   Listen for: respect for your reproductive and prenatal team.
5. What happens if I become emotional or want to talk about something painful?
   Listen for: patience, not a rush to the next message.
6. How long is the session, and can my partner join?
   Listen for: a clear answer, with options for couples.
7. What will I receive afterward, and how are recordings and my personal information handled?
   Listen for: a clear list: a recording, notes or a written summary, and how your information is kept.
8. What are your cancellation and rescheduling terms?
   Listen for: terms in writing before you pay.
9. Is support beyond this session a separate service, and what does it cost?
   Listen for: a plain explanation of the difference between one reading and ongoing support.
10. Do you ever guarantee a conception date or an outcome?
    Listen for: no. A good practitioner supports you through uncertainty without promising a result.

How do I know which Spirit Baby medium is right for me?

Choose the practitioner who takes your whole journey seriously: the medical, the emotional, and the spiritual.

You do not have to know exactly what to ask before reaching out. You might only know that you want someone to understand what you have been through and what this next part of the journey feels like.

Whether you are beginning to try, continuing treatment, grieving a baby, or finding your way through pregnancy, look for a practitioner who takes that experience seriously. There should be room for the spiritual questions and the person asking them.

If that is the kind of conversation you are looking for, explore a Spirit Baby reading with me. We can begin with where you are and what you would like support with.

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